Control & Making it Happen

Life is constantly changing it directions and the minute you stop thinking of others opinions is when things will go in your favor. Sometimes we have to let go of some things, habits and people to realize this and thats okay. People grow and move on and it doesn’t mean that you dislike the person or things that you're used to but this shows you peoples true transparency. I always say move in silence because things just go a lot smoother. Now I could be totally skeptical but from my own experience I know the minute I open my mouth things go south. Again, it could be me or it could be a proven fact that when you move in silence things can go well for you and you can climb a lot faster than anticipated. Sometimes you just have to put your big girl panties on and take control of what you want. Ask yourself are you truly happy where you are in life? Are you settling because things are comfortable and you’re afraid of change? Ask yourself why are you stagnant or not? I know for sure in the past I have settle just for the comfort and what I thought was comfortable was really my own fear that was stopping me in my own tracks. At almost 49, I am still learning..far from perfect, still challenging myself, and still striving because I want to be at a certain place by the time I hit 50. Can I also tell you that most of my life I have been a planner and well that has gone well and other times not so well. I’m here to tell you that life doesn’t require a plan, sometimes it requires an open mind, spontaneity, adventure and pure intentions. Once you have this in place, you can move mountains so long as you know the direction you are headed. All it sometimes takes is a little push from an unknown person. So, with that said..follow your gut, it never steers you wrong! Remember me and don’t forget to stop by and say hello when you hit the very top..with love and encouragement xoxo