Things I’ve learned
So many things I have learned as I got older that I refuse to tolerate anymore. You may think this is crazy but for some odd reason I was always attracted to “broken people” These are the same people that broke my heart, took advantage of my kindness or mistook my “being nice” as a sign of weakness. Well..I can tell you that I took on some pretty interesting challenges. Some were just really bad and well others are what got me here. If any of these resonate with you, please comment would love to hear your thoughts and remember there is no wrong or right answer.
Wasting time on one sided relationships - This is when your other half puts all the blame on you without sharing any accountability.
Aguing with people - Sometimes we bottle things up, sweep them under the rug and let the dust bunnies pile up while all along you could just spill the beans and get the conversation over with. A lot of us think that by holding things in would be good but in reality it just builds resentment, digust and rash decisions and thats when you find yourself arguing for no reason at all
Overtinking - thinking about the past and what we couldn't change. We sometimes fail to think that we can change people or situations but the reality is that if a person wants to change, they have to want it for themselves, not because you want them to change.
Accepting toxic behavior because we think we have to - Truth to this is that there is always someone willing to help and this is why I created this site. I know first hand that I had no one to go to because I was afraid I would be critique, I was embarrassed and afraid. I’m telling you the worse toxicity is verbal, these are the things that we keep reserve subconsciously in the back of our minds. This was the part where I pretended to hurt but inside I felt like I was dying and just learned to say “to hell it is” where I just started saying NO and YES to being my bubbly self.
Joy takers - Those that just talk about ever negative when you have things that you are excited to share. These people are draining, annoying and everything in between. It feels like they suck the life out of you.
Once I discovered these things, I learned to start saying yes to my happines and started counting my blessings instead of my mishaps. When I did this, I learned to stop comparing myself to others and countless opportunities open their doors. I learned to followed my own dreams. because I have many to fulfill and want to help others to do the same. xoxo
