Closure

Have you ever wondered why things happened the way they did? Even have caught yourself saying, what if I did this? These are common questions of a person that wants to know why and you want those answers sooner than later. Maybe because in the back of your mind you are thinking that maybe if you did spoke to this person they may say something that will wash that pain away or even the emptiness you feel. What if I told you that they already gave you the answer..

• they left without saying a word..this says a lot as they are not suited to give you what you need.

• Their actions speak louder than words when they are silent.

• To me this just means one of two things and they couldn’t give you what you needed or vice versa..its simple truth and as harsh as it may sound its just facts because looking back they probably left you, disappeared and stop answering your calls, broke it off with you and cheated. They said what needed to be said and poof they are gone. Does any of this make sense or sound familiar? Who the heck wants to have this conversation just for you to realize that you can close the damn door yourself. I can’t tell you how many times I have done this and it just to end the same way it started and can tell you that its great in the beginning and then you torture yourself because you got want you wanted to realize it really wasn’t.

• I’m here to tell you that you can absolutely miss the connection you once had but thats all is and not want them back at all. You just have to see that if they/you were brave enough to leave, you just need to close that chapter and know that you don’t need an explanation to shut that door. Be grateful for the lessons it taught you and know that you are worth more and deserve more!

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